I doubt I could ever get a refund, Steam have it in their agreement - no take backs, well they gave me a refund on Section 8 pre-order before when I moaned like a bitch to them about the release date once
I would rather get it working, i need a new game to play, I just know its going to come down to opening ports & I hate messing about with that shit, it also never works for me, i will try again later to get online