oh wow...all really good advice, I would prefer to set it up myself for the very reasons you listed fry, just when I looked into the PHPBB install there was a load of stuff about altering code and well it frightened me a little
We have the domain name sorted, the hosting also, just need to check if they support the requirements for forums but I would imagine they do
I choose phpbb because I know shag all about this, smf is easier you say, I shall look into it tonight
Again thanks so much for the help, I feel more comfortable knowing I can hit some of you knowledgeable folk with a few questions when I need to, cheers